I was at a BP station buying two large cappuccinos--french vanilla for Pam, a caramel for me. A young black gal wearing a dress, very pretty, came up beside me and stood there for a few second.

"Excuse me," she said finally. "I have a magazine you might be interested in reading. It has some good articles about stress and...." She mentioned some other articles.

As hot liquid poured into a cup, I looked at the magazine. It was a small-sized publication called "Awake." The page she held open showed the name "Watchtower."

As I suspected, she was a Jehovah's Witness.

"No thank you," I told her.

I then continued filling the cups, and she continued standing there, waiting her turn.

"I'll bet you're from Jamaica," I said. Pretty obvious accent.

"Trinidad and Tobago," she said. "We're not far away."

"So I was close," I said. "I'm sure you would recognize the difference in speech between a Jamaican and someone from Trinidad, but I can't."

We exchanged a few more words, the I headed to the cashier while she got her own cappuccino.

As I drove away, I felt the conversation had been incomplete in two ways: I hadn't given a reason for my lack of interest in "Awake," and I hadn't affirmed her. Here's what I wish I had told her.

"I'm an evangelical Christian. But though we share different beliefs, I want to commend you for having the courage to share your faith with other people. I don't want to wish you success, but I do admire what you're doing."

Maybe next time.

So--what do you think would have been a good response to that young woman?